Reply To: Ladies First – Is it respectful or not?

Person1: “Does shlugged up means beaten in an argument?

I guess nobody likes that but if he turns you down for this I doubt it’s such a big loss.”

🙂 True, but I hear that type of thing often enough to get me nervous that all boys are like that, and I don’t think that would work for me. I mean obviously, I’ll try to be sweet and respectful and all that (even when I’m beating him in an argument), but I can’t help it if I’m intelligent bli ayin hara, and I do need someone who will respect that and appreciate it.