Serving drinks is not the same as pouring drinks. I have never seen a wife pour her husband’s drinks for him.
Eees and I pour drinks for each other all the time.
We also hold the door open for each other all the time.
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We definitely don’t do this. Our marriage is one of equals, not master and servant or boss and underling and certainly not king and subject.
If you want to say that this makes our marriage not a “Torah marriage,” then fine, that’s your opinion, but after 25 years, we’re not changing.
The Wolf