The Torah Temimah and Rav Emden and some of the others lived fairly recently. In fact, the Torah Temimah passed away in the 1940s and even lived in America for a time. So it was the way of the world from Matan Torah through the modern era and only changed when Susan B. Anthony or Betty Friedan came along?
None of that matters. I was throwing you a bone. Don’t want it? That’s fine… but my point still remains – saying that a marriage must be the way Rabbi Miller describes it (or else it’s not a successful marriage) is just plain wrong.
Many people claim that they see with their own own eyes and/or experience that toeiva “marriages” are “successful couples” where the so-called “marriage” works.
Really??? You’re comparing a marriage of the type we’re discussing to a homosexual marriage? You think that they’re both the same???
The Wolf