HGG – the only time I remember telling you that I was insulted by something you said, I was actually just trying to tell you that your post could have been offensive to some and was not appropriate, but I was trying to be polite and use an “I message”, which apparently caused the point to be missed.
Regarding your post on this thread, you wrote that you will only be nice to MEN who are older than you and not to women. YOU are responsible for your niceness and no one else, and you are capable of being nice to everyone if you choose.