coffee addict -That shidduch wasn’t based on Yichus, like you’re implying. He was a Baal Chessed!
I’m sorry I gave off that implication
I was trying to say that you can’t bring a rayah from a tzadik like Boaz and Rus that did it L’shaim Shamayim
Rus did it fully because Naomi said so and it even says in Rus that Boaz praised her that she didn’t go for the younger men (mashma in those times too you married within your age range)