Reply To: Tell us about your first date with your spouse

Wow you spent 3 months on dating her before proposing and becoming engaged? That’s pretty long

Keep in mind that we started dating at the end of August, so there was a month of chagim thrown in there as well. (Although we did see each other, and she made her first official visit to where I lived for the first days of Sukkot).

Also, she had met my parents, but I had not yet met hers. We had to make arrangements to fly from NY to her home city so I could meet them. We got engaged less than a week after that trip. Three months in our circles is not a long time to date.