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soberknight
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Another first date was bowling. It was expensive, but a one-and-done. Rabbi Sobolofsky from NJ has said publicly that his first date with his wife Efrat was bowling, so it works for some people.

Regarding the multiple people simultaneously issue, I’m not against it in principle as long as you’re not yet “serious” with any one of them. This was a very unusual situation for me where I had lined up two first dates several weeks in advance of my summer break, but I had to be in physical proximity to the candidates, and it just worked out to be the same day for both, and I was able to finagle a date with one woman in the morning and the other woman in the afternoon. When my father found out what was happening, he said it was fine but not to do it again. Amen!