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does anywhere know where the gemara is that says hagolel notel schar kulam?

Which proves my point exactly. Why do you think the golel takes all their schar? I could understand if he just got more than them, but why does he even get their schar and they get nothing?

Because they were mevazeh him in front of the whole shul. That’s why.