Reply To: Why I won't let my kids do ?????

Can a person tell the gabbai that it bothers them, so he won’t do it to other people?

Are you kidding? What do you think, that the gabbai is clueless? That he doesn’t know who he gives which kibbudim to? Do you think he “just happens” to give the married sons aliyos and their older brothers gelila when they all come for pesach?