THE GOQ- well said!
how its related to the topic?
-i found out that many of the times i feel some sadness [call it whatever u want] its after talking with a married friend or relative.
its easy to notice, for some reason, once people get married they suddenly feel “wiser” andor more adult than u, even if you are older than them!
it results in “knowing” exactly why you are still single and what u dodid wrong,
and in general arrogance on you…
so my main method for staying happy is to minimize seeing them to minimum, and finding new, single friends 🙂 .
also, finding brothers in arms is quite comforting, so… 😉
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AND the root of the problem i think is {already said above} the fact that the Charedi society “overlook” the singles…its like u dont exist until u get married.
the general feeling is like there is no such thing as being a single, its like falling between 2 stools…”u can be a child, or married, but being single is weird”
and its absurd!
THIS should be changed!
being a single is not any single’s fault(or will)! its Hashem plans…
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a good week and a gezunte winter all.