DY: Interesting. I go with the assumption that they are a Midas Chassidus (my Rebbe once quoted Rav Moshe and I think also Rav Ruderman as saying so, but I haven’t seen that inside). I also remember thinking there were a lot of Middas Chassidus Leshonos in there (Lo and Tzarich, as opposed to Chayav or Assur), but I haven’t looked at the precise language there in a while. But even with your assumption, would that apply in someone’s own/a friend’s home when the only people around are women?
