Reply To: obtain a beis din's preliminary ruling without actually going to a beis din

On a positive note, I just got off the phone with the Bais Horaah of Lakewood. I also donated $36 on their web site & encourage others to do the same. What a wonderful resources. Thanks again Abba S. & others for pointing them out. The Rabbi told me any beis din would require marriage counseling before granting and/or ordering anyone to give a Get. So that’s good & opposite of whay my Rabbi stated. He then gave me the name of a head beis din Rabbi who can hear our case & provide shailos/guidance before we actually go to a beis din.