Reply To: Make sure before marrying

I could be wrong (it happens regularly), 50 years ago, maybe even 25 years ago, no one needed training on how to be a good husband/wife. They had Torah. But I think that on a whole, they were were responsible and less selfish. People thought about others. I don’t know how to teach responsibility and lack of selfishness, but I know these are things I have had to overcome and in today’s children (yes 18 and 19 year olds and even older) it only gets worse.