Ok, to recap:
you are not checking out this yeshiva for your brother. Or maybe you are, but you don’t want us to know that you have a brother or a mother so we can’t figure out who you are.
Or maybe you are checking out this yeshiva for someone else’s brother, but you won’t be able to tell him what you find out since he does not talk to girls. So maybe you will ask the brother that you don’t have to tell him?
Or maybe you are trying to find out information about a boy who is no one’s brother for shidduch purposes. I guess this yeshiva is taking the Nasi initiative to date younger very seriously.
I’m getting a bit dizzy from all this.