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Upon what basis do you have the right to decide that they deserve more sensitivity than she does? Nebach a good frum woman who is a teacher and role model finds out her husband is ill and does horrendous things. She’s stuck between a rock and a hard place because she has a family and doesn’t want to break up her family and risk damaging her kids. She likely also loves her husband and has a very good home together with him. Any wife who finds out their husband has such a problem deserves tons of rachmanus. I’m quite surprised that that isn’t apparent to you as a woman.