“Can’t I just as easily ask why it’s not cruel for the wife to ask for a Get when there’s no compelling reason for one?”
Lenny, your wife is not cruel, she’s unhappy. Make her happy (work out your issues) and she won’t need a get.
Again, as I’ve asked numerous times on different threads you’ve started and which I feel you seem to have skirted the issue, my question is whether you plan on working on yourself and dealing with the issues your wife has? I am not referring only to simple issues like whether your kids play baseball or video games, but whether you spend the time to discuss with her how you feel about your kids wasting time in front of a video screen and all of the physical/mental problems associated with lack of activity, etc, or do you just insist on your way and belittle her for having any opinion on the issue, and if the latter is how you have been handling things up until now, do you plan to correct this very basic issue of how you treat your wife? Does your wife not deserve to be happy? You might think you are happy, but since your wife is supposed to be a part of you (a very major part I would think) how can you be happy if she is not?