“k, I thought so, just checking.”
“Why? Checking for what?”
“because you seemed to be implying that’s not what he was saying. So I didn’t know if it was clear to everyone, and I wanted to make sure it was clear to Lenny since I sense his opinion is important to him, and he is likely to listen to him.”
“Not sure what the point was of your first 2 paragraphs”
“The point of the first two paragraphs was the part you disagreed with that you were trying to say he didn’t say…just saying”
Since his words mysteriously disappeared, I can longer comment on precisely what he said. However, I do know that the reason I asked him what his point was was precisely because he sounded like he was saying those words in order to argue with someone and I didn’t know who in the world he was arguing with, since he wasn’t saying anything that contradicted what anyone else was saying!
All he said was that IF the Rabbanim say that he should stay married, then he should do so. I think that we all agree with that, and I think it is important to point that out to Lenny as well, so he will know that is one possible outcome. He needs to be aware that there are different possibilities regarding what the Rabbanim might say and he has to be ready to agree with all of them.