A lot of the posts in this thread seem to about the supposed contradiction between having values and opinions vs. accepting others. I think the key is to distinguish between people and their actions/hashkafos. You can love someone and disagree with them and think that what they are doing or thinking is wrong. You can even tell them that you think that what they are doing is wrong and it doesn’t have to mean that you love them any less just because you think they made a mistake.
After all, do you love your children any less when you scold them? Do you love yourself any less when you do vidui and acknowledge your mistakes?