Abba: “The fact that you have a Heter to accept Loshon HoRa-Motzie Shem Ra this is so that you can avoid an abusive relationship but doesn’t allow you to tell anyone else. Telling someone else may result in you being guilty of Rachelos, Loshon HoRa or Motzie Shem Ra besides possibly embarrassing someone.”
+1. Also, even for yourself, you are supposed to not really believe it as fact even while you act on it. I have no idea how this is possible, but it is the halacha, so it must be possible. I only hope to be able to reach that level one day.