Reply To: Divorce in the jewish community

Opinion and anecdote: As one seeking a zivug sheni, and for reasons unusual, I cannot use shadchanim, rather certain match sites. From my perspective, there is an inexhaustible supply of divorcees, and this is in the young grandfather and young grandmother cohort. I can’t really tell the sub-category rate of not recently divorced among them, but I sense that they are many. The most terrifying prospect for me is to become unstuck from being “stuck in my ways” and this is probably a common thing. It makes the ‘too picky” 23 year old look flexible