Yet to get to the point of Abba_S’s “can you spend the rest of your life with your date then take the plunge and get married,” I can’t “see” myself living with junk food and alcohol in the house for the rest of my life.
If you can’t see yourself living with the guy because of his unhealthy lifestyle why are you going out with him? I was only referring to those who need to feel an emotional attachment which may never happen. Take the plunge before it’s too late but it’s your life and nobody can make this decision for you.