Shloimel, I very much agree with your third point. I think that I would have been spared a lot of agmas nefesh as well as wasted time if I had been told that an emotional connection is important and I don’t have to keep going out with guys whom I can’t stand being around instead of being pressurred to keep on going out with and even marrying them (Boruch Hashem, I withstood the last pressure but it was very hard).
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