BG – I just read this thread and feel compelled to “warn” you that if you are dating chareidi style, I think giving any type of gift before being engaged (or having decided between yourselves that you will be doing so) is a very bad idea. From the people around me there is concensus that it might give the wrong message about you hashkofically. I would be careful giving any gifts to a girl without checking in with the shadchan or someone who knows her.
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