“lilmod, only meshum eiva; m’ikkur hadin it’s assur to be mechallel Shabbos for that.”
I know that, but l’maaseh you still have to.
M’ikar hadin you can also eat milk an hour after meat, but l’maaseh you still have to wait 6 hours (unless possibly, if you are Dutch or Yekke and have a minhag to wait less, but even then, it may not be so pashut).