Reply To: Being rigid

Thanks LU for your advice and perspective 🙂

Actually I understand about the internet and tv. Personally I don’t want a tv in my house. It’s not something that I want to nor b’esrat Hashem will compromise on for marriage. I want to be with someone who is on the same page here.

As for internet, being against it isn’t rigid. I offered another perspective, since maybe the internet would be used as a tool to help her work or get information when she’s raising their children, with G-d’s help. Yet, if that’s not okay with him, then I get that too.

I agree about the part where he is not meeting the right girls. I think a change of crowd and maybe location may make him feel normal and feel like he can grow in the direction that his community is leaning.