btw, from the footnote there, it is not a chiyuv even b’makom chashad.
I didn’t realize that’s what chashad meant. I still don’t get it. People aren’t choshed frum girls for things like that, there is rarely a reason to be, and it doesn’t make sense to me at all that anyone would be.
Again it could be that it is referring to a girl who doesn’t want to get married, but even in that case, it doesn’t make sense to me.