Reply To: A posek can tell you who to marry

Yes this thread is geared towards the case where a posek tells Certain X to specifically marry Certain Y.

In terms of not marrying, rabbonim do that already. The compilation of letters sent from the Lubavitcher Rebbe to individuals in shidduchim are quite resourceful. He talks about potential consequences that can cause issues during marriage if someone chooses to marry someone on a much different religious level and such. In most of those cases that I’ve read online, the Rebbe advised the person not to go through with the shidduch.

Telling someone not to marry, and whether the person listens or not is a different matter.