It’s also on the woman. Kal vachomer from daled.
I don’t understand what you mean.
Also clear from ??????, because if a woman loses her ?????, she obviously did something wrong.
That presumes it is Da’as Yehudis, which gets us back to the same discussion as before.
Finally, you are not answering why one is declared “Assur” while the other is not, and we only infer it from Hilchos Kesubah (and not Brachos). This is Rav Moshe’s point by hair as well.