There is something I have been wondering about. When I first started dating, I was super-uncomfortable, having basically never spoken to a boy in my life. I am sure that there must be many others who feel this way.
Who are all these people engaging in “schok and kalus rosh” on dates? Does this really happen or is this an assumption being made? Who are you talking about? Are these modern boys and girls? I find it hard to imagine that the average Yeshivish Yeshiva Bochur or Bais Yaakov girl is so comfortable going out with members of the opposite gender that that is a problem. Am I very naive? Are we talking about a completely different type?