Anyone with common sense back then was aware that Jews are none of that. Whereas anyone with common sense now, knows that Islamic terrorism is a danger. You place too much emphasis on emotional logic, rather than intellectual facts. We were no harm to the US, on the contrary, immigrant Jews worked hard for a living and contributed their part. Islamic refugees are paid for by you and me, and many of them (especially ISIS) would also quite enjoy seeing the death, if not killing, you and me. Before anyone responds that it isn’t ISIS, it has been seen again and again both in Europe and the US, that among the refugees are ISIS and other radical Islamic terrorists.
I don’t believe you are self-hating, I think it might be beneficial for you to think more with the facts, and less with emotional reaction.