Sorry Syag. I didn’t mean to make you feel bad. I don’t either have goyim, my husband picked them up specifically for the garage, because the stuff in there is too heavy for me, and he isn’t available to help.
The shalach manos junk go straight to the garbage on motzei purim in my house, the regular snacks go into the snack basket under the breakfast table and the real food goes into the Fridge and we eat it for the next few days, and whatever stays over is dumped. I don’t make myself a headache from it.
Why does everyone drop off their food at your house?? If you find it this stressful, maybe you shouldn’t do it.