Thanks ZK 🙂
LB, did you ask this random person where he got this “mesora” from? I would definitely insist on pretty strong mekorot from random people to start worrying about these issues with my baby (aside from the fact that a new mother is usually so tired that she can hardly manage regular daily activities during the first few weeks after birth, much less such restrictions). Anyway, random online conversation aside from with the talmidei chochomim here in the CR should be entered into very cautiously. As a single woman, you could be a target for some unsavory people out there, even if they seem to be talking very lofty things. Just keep an eye out.