You missed my point , it has nothing to do with which camp you consider yourself part of. But more you seem to be always willing to give the benefit of the doubt to more charedi people, but not so much to people on the more modern side. Its perfect OK to disagree with someone on your camp and agree with people on the other side. It does not damage your principles.
Personally I certainly think the charedi communities have more of a sense of community than the more modern communities and are more willing to help than the more modern ones and try to make the Yeshiva tutitions more affordable than the modern communities where tuition very well might destroy the community