Reply To: Shadchanim

I think that the the idea shows hakaras hatov and is very nice. Obviously one can’t say a set fee to pay for the dates because it is dependent on the family’s financial status. AZ what I meant was for me personally I would feel uncomfortable to call and shadchan and say that. I would feel more comfortable showing my appreciation once it has ended, which is what I usually do although have never done it in the form of money. Also as someone else mentioned there needs to be a shadchan, or someone who knows boys that is going to be willing to be on top of the situation and work on your behalf…. It is hard to find some shadchanim like that.