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I’m older now (past 20’s) and yes my parents wanted me to finish college and get a career first.

Marriage comes later. Very American compared to at least the frum world. Though I learned that in Israel, it’s like that now, with people getting married and having children in late 20’s or at 30, for secular Israelis too.

So now after being raised that way I see the other perspective, where people get married younger and grow together.

Some couples don’t have jobs before marriage but they figure it out along the way.