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Lilmod Ulelamaid
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“Lilmod, if that is true, do you think I would get redt by at least 1 of the 4 shadchanim?”

I have no idea. I don’t know enough about it. But I have heard that the well-known shadchanim in Lakewood get hundreds of emails a day. So it’s hard to imagine that they are able to set everyone up.

I’m guessing that you might be better off with less-well-known shadchanim or shadchanim outside of Lakewood.

But I don’t know enough about it, so I don’t want you to rely on me. Maybe try one of them, and ask him/her if he thinks he would have anyone for you, and what he thinks your best bet is in terms of shadchanim who would be able to help you (if he doesn’t think he can).