You see it as Sinas Chinam, I dont. I see it the proper way to behave when you meet someone
Lets say you meet a chiloni of an “Alternative Lifestyle”, its not really a good idea to yell at them for doing an averiah in Vayikra and then give him a vort from your rebbe on the evils of this averiah
Lets say you meet a Dati leumi Settler, I dont think discussing Chiudishim from Vyoel Joel is such a good idea
And Finally if you meet a Charedi, Dont discuss with them the Super Bowl game.
I like to celebrate peoples differneces, not their sameness. If everyone was the same life would be pretty boring