Reply To: marrying a good boy who might not be good enough for you

Repeat after me:

I will STAY AWAY from person x.

I will not give person x rides.

I will not look at his tattoo or anything else he shows me(because I am staying away).

I will daven that he should do teshuva shleima while staying away from me.

I will daven that he should not get hurt by my actions.

I will daven that hashem should send me my true bashert at the right time (and that the right time should be soon).

Then do everything you just said…