LB – I wrote my last post before I saw yours.
I understand, and your emotional health is important. Maybe take a few days and come back to it.
The whole thing was really a big misunderstanding (imho) and I think I understand where it came from. It would be good if it could be cleared up. Maybe I’ll try again when I have a chance and can figure out how to explain it more concisely and clearly (either for you or for the others).