Golfer – that actually is how I meant it. (although I did mean for it to be funny as well as serious, so I’m glad you laughed, because that was the point!)
I have seen articles on this topic. Both about how people tend to be more depressed on or after holidays either because of loneliness or unmet expectations, as well as the difficulties people face having to get together with family on holidays. I don’t remember if they were talking about Jews or goyim (probably both), but I think it’s something that applies to all people.
I once met a Frum married lady who happened to be a therapist I think, who had just returned from visiting her family. She was talking about what an expensive trip it was – aside from the plane fare, there was also the cost of the therapy that was needed afterwards!