I dont think she dreamed that this was the reason!
I heard he has (or had) money.
emoticon613; I hear ya, believe me, I understand the
agmas nefesh, but “worthless shidduchim!?”
when I was dating, I wud be very makpid not 2 say anything negative about the seldom “really over the moon girls”
even though it’s frustrating, like “what on earth was the shadchan thinking?! One time I almost drove to the bronx cuz I was embarassed to be seen with a certain girl
& I didn’t want 2 get out of the car.
Nevertheless, she had no clue and I treated her with the utmost respect (as she deserves) didnt even bring her home early
as I didnt want to insult her, or make her feel insecure.
My point is everything that gets redt 2 u, is 4 a reason,
& don’t look at them like they’re worthless, just…
Not Nogeah! Hatzlacha!