There is nothing disturbing about people being considerate of other people whether that means going out of their way to buy packaged food because they think the people they are giving to would prefer that (as ZD does) or going out of their way to bake things because they think the people they are giving to would prefer that (as Meno does).
Boruch Hashem we have such wonderful people in Am Yisrael who are so considerate of others – each in his own way.