Syag
“But the HONEST truth is that very very few had a list that ONLY contained people they didn’t touch. Everyone with all these platonic relationships had at least one that wasn’t”
so that is two issurim: the touching, and the friendship see (Igeros Moshe) this thread is not about issurim. IT is about returning lost keys.
“Now i’m being accused of being misguided and over chumradik.”
I didnt mean to accuse you of anything. In fact I pointed out that you did not leave the lights on.
“NOBODY said not to return the keys,”
Feivel sounded that way, though again perhaps I misunderstood