“yitzmocha, I think I give up doing kiruv. I think I should do kiruv on my boyfriend before I do it on some random girl.”
Rebshidduch – this reminds me of when I was in seminary and I asked the head of my seminary if I should get involved with a certain modern co-ed kiruv organization. He told me I should be mekarev myself first before I’m mekarev others.
Rebshidduch, you are not yet at a stage that you should even be thinking of doing kiruv. If you have a boyfriend who needs kiruv, that shows that: 1. you are not ready to do kiruv & 2. you are not ready to have a boyfriend.