ZD – While I think that I heartily agree with everything that you have written in this thread (I think I should be saying Shehechiyanu early this year!!!), and I agree with your last post as well, I think that in terms of your last post, you and Rebshidduch were talking about different things (and therefore, I agree with her as well).
I think it was her use of the word “sneakily” which threw you. I don’t think she meant it the way you thought she did.