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Lilmod Ulelamaid
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Joseph, sorry if I misunderstood you. In any case, I think my point may hold true to some extent for things other than age (although it is probably the most so with age).

It is possible that guys’ thinking that they have the upper hand can lead them to be “unnecessarily-picky” since they assume that they can marry whomever they want. That can backfire and harm their shidduchim leading them to remain single. This seems to be the reason or part of the reason why at least some older single guys are still single (although definitely not all, and it may be a small percentage).

I can also see its potentially harming their middos and/or causing them to become too superficial in terms of what they are looking for in a shidduch.

And of course, it can cause harm to society as a whole in many ways.