Avi – What you wrote is a complete falsehood.
1. He was an Israeli, not an American
2. They really used a roll for the afikomen. They were trying to hide this fact from him, and he found out.
3. Apparenly, the IDF Rabbinate is not able to control everything that goes on.
4. He went to the Army because he thought it was a Mitzvah to do so and he was very idealistic about the Army and was shocked when he found that out.
5. He stopped being Frum in the army even though he was super-Frum before he went in.