I just reread the thread and I think I may have misunderstood Scald’s post. Were you trying to say that it’s okay with you if the girl watches tv and movies? On SYAS, for the tv/movies question, one of the options is: “possibly” which apparently means that whether or not you watch tv/movies, you won’t necessarily reject someone who does (even if you don’t do so yourself and do consider it assur).
Was that what you meant?