Joseph
There are distinctions here.
In the case under discussion the woman is doing the averah.
The husband is only considered to be doing an averah if he is aware.
Thus it may not be advisable to tell him. Certainly you shouldn’t tell him if you are afraid he may not grant her a divorce. Which brings us back to the last disagreement I had with you. Namely better shogeg then mazid. Here he wouldn’t even be shogeg he would have a din ones since he is unaware.
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