Reply To: Should I Bother Taking My Wife To A Beis Din

Joseph, I’m just not religious. I wasn’t bar mitzvhd until i was 40 and in the Army. I believe the Arbitration Agreement was mutually cancelled b/c it was legally deficient, i.e., blank scope & none of the Beis Din members were lawyers. I don’t want to give a Get b/c i want to try marriage counselding & stay married. I assume BD of America would be more like our sheila Rabbi & side w/ me; but I don’t know that for a fact. My wife became religous about 23 years ago. I’m fine with it. She buys expensive sheitels, we send our kids to yeshiva, israel, etc… etc… Kids are all religious; including 2 who are black hat. End goal is to get into marriage counseling with the Rabbi/counselor who thinks i’m a good guy & marriage workable. I’m really trying to find someone who represents people and knows how beis din work. Thanks